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Improving our inclusivity (and vocabulary!) regarding ableism

Content warning: Use of ableist slurs, uncensored.

Hello all! As of this post I am one of the newest writers for Teen Skepchick! To kick off my time writing here, I am going to introduce you all to an issue that we have to deal with when the skeptic community and the social justice community intersect, but that is far too often ignored. Namely, ableism as it manifests in a community full of smart folks.

When we discuss woo-pushers, snake-oil-salesmen, and science-deniers, there is an instinct to respond by insulting them regarding their perceived lack of intelligence. We laugh at them as we tell them how stupid they are for believing and pushing the things they do.

The way we go about doing this is not okay. Thing is, it isn’t just women who are turned away from the skeptic community due to the way they are seen and regarded by skeptics. Something similar happens with people with disabilities as well. Women are put off of this community when we throw sexist slurs at the people we argue against as a way to belittle them by comparing them to women; In the same sense, people with disabilities are told that they are not welcome here by people using ableist slurs as insults.

It should hopefully come as no surprise that calling someone a “retard” or its derivatives is absolutely not okay. And no, “special” is no better. The issue here is that what you are saying is “you lack intelligence, much like someone who is developmentally disabled.” As a mentally disabled person who knows many people with intellectual disabilities, this is absolutely, 100%, Not Okay. Many of the people I know with intellectual and learning disabilities are astoundingly brilliant, and even if they were not, it would be wrong to use a slur that they are often cruelly subjected to as a quick gotcha against someone who peddles nonsense. There is a world of difference between having trouble intellectually because of a disability and believing in non-scientific nonsense. People who believe in say, homeopathy, don’t (necessarily) have developmental disabilities, and should they have one, the two are not related. Plenty of developmentally and intellectually disabled people are, in fact, huge skeptics (Go ahead, get an autistic person started on anti-vaxxers.)

Now, beyond that we run into murkier territory– words like stupid or idiot. Many social justice versed people still feel it is okay to use these words to describe anti-skeptical people. I will argue that not only is this not okay, but not desirable. On one hand, it’s simply not accurate. Plenty of the people who push these things are not in the least unintelligent– they just use their intelligence to weasel their way out of sense-making arguments. And of course, words like stupid and idiot are used to insult those with intellectual disabilities, though many argue that “stupid” is something someone does, not something one is, but nonetheless these words have become tools of the kyriarchy that hurt and disempower disabled people. I, personally, am fond of the logic that even if you believe this about the word “stupid” and similar words, the loss you suffer by removing it from your vocabulary is less than the harm you cause by using it and othering disabled people.

This is about the point that even well-intentioned people start arguing about censorship and sanitizing their language, but I just can’t take the argument that language is lessened when you remove privilege-entrenched words.

Simply because, if not stupid, what do you call a woo-monger?

There’s wrong, for one. Or disingenuous. Or uninformed. Or a ridiculously underinformed fallacy-spouting nonsense-geyser. All far superior options, if you ask me– it’s similar to how, when we take away bigoted slurs to use as insults, we wind up using truly fabulous phrases like “asshat” and “douchenozzle.”

Removing undesirable words does not hurt us. It makes us more welcoming to underprivileged people, while forcing us to expand our vocabulary to be more specific and descriptive… and often, hilarious. We are entirely better off for the effort.


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Kit "Grimalkin" Partin is an autistic genderqueer lesbian-boy-thing hailing from Dallas. He recently graduated from an online high school that he went to because his brain was so awesome it forgot how to not be depressed, and now he's pursuing a degree in art! He's a proud Atheism Plusser, and is working on an A+ non-profit. Here he is on twitter, facebook and that weird google+ thing he doesn't understand.


  1. December 17, 2013 at 12:38 am —

    How do you feel about douche? I’ve heard arguments both ways from the feminist school.

    I like “quack”, depending on the kind of woo they’re peddling. “Faithhead” works, too, and not just for theists.

    Congrats on your first article, Grim!

    • December 17, 2013 at 1:05 am —

      While I find both arguments– the one claiming it’s “ew (cis)girl parts” and the side claiming it’s “ew gross tool of the patriarchy”– totally valid, I lean towards the second one. Also in part because I find using it to be slightly reclaiming-ish.


  2. February 16, 2014 at 3:31 pm —

    This blog post seems very relevant to what’s going on right now at Skepchick. It even addresses the words “stupid” and “idiot” two months in advance of their controversial use elsewhere on this site. It gives me the sense that this sort of thing happens a lot.

    • February 16, 2014 at 3:58 pm —

      Indeed. It… happens a lot.

      But this wasn’t a blog post in response to something happening (THANKFULLY). It was essentially my intro post, to put out there that I’m not going to be silent about ableist shit like this. And when it did happen… I was pretty fucking loud.

      And as much as I am triggered to hell and back (You know what’s fun? existing in a state of quasi sleeping for 24 hours with intermittent periods of…shaking. All for trying to defend your friends!) I’m going to write one more post about this subject, directly related to what’s going on. A timeline of it, actually.

      And for fucks sake I hope I don’t need to write another one two months from now then.

  3. February 17, 2014 at 10:03 pm —

    Thank you for explaining that, I admit I have used such terms in the past. I will try not to do so any more. Please keep up the fight.

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