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Did you know that boys, not girls, are more often the victims of dating violence? It’s true because a study said so! Pack it up everybody, t […]
Yeah, when you conflate the two, things get…yeah.
However, there is definitely a correlation between being a domestic abuser and shooting people. Also a correlation between being an incel and shooting people. Wow, who knew misogyny would correlate so well to murder? Lots of people would.
AFAIK, every culture socializes male abusiveness differently from female abusiveness. I wonder if there would actually be a difference if the socializations were non-gendered.
When the abuse is violent, males are stronger and do more damage on average. I think that tends to skew our perception of the harm.
The bottom line is that we need to teach both boys and girls how to have healthy relationships; and how to recognize early on if they are in an unhealthy one.
Given how many kids have no opportunity to witness a healthy relationship, I expect this to take at least 1000 years.